When so many others on all the different "teams" were flinging poo at one another, you kept your dignity about you, were pleasant to everyone, and acted in a most professional manner. This has not gone unnoticed, and it may be the silver lining in the cloud for you eventually: sooner or later, somebody "higher up" in the business is going to need a professional who can take the worst this fandom can dish out without losing her cool. You have shown that you have what it takes for that.

You did not "lose". You gained. And that's a win.